Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Red Heart Yarn Product Review

I love crafts so I wanted to share a product review with all of you... join me and share any projects you are doing.

How to make apple butter

I have never made apple butter ... but I am going to... If you have ever made apple butter ...please share tips with all of us..

Friday, February 24, 2012

The biggest Mistake most businesses make in social media

thisis part 1...notice you can't hear ME? .... they can't hear you...find you...and even if they did...they wouldn't want to.....subscribe and comment and stayed tuned for Part two of this...it will change your biz!

XFactor Extreme Coupon Feb 19 thur Feb 25 class 1

Stockpile your coupons

I am addicted to thrifiting

I used to be a young yuppie with a bag of cash and could shop anywhere and really not worry about the price tag... I learned how to shop the stores to get the most beautiful clothes at the best prices. I love dresses so right after Easter I would go into my favorite stores and purchase all the clothing I liked in my size at a deep discount... At Easter time they would put out the fancier clothes and when I got bigger (curvy) I began shopping at the beginning of the season to make sure I always got my size.

All said.. I have given it up for the thrift stores and goodwills... nice clothing many times venders outlet BRAND NEW THINGS and I found that this was the way to go... Like stockpiling for couponing...why not stockpile what your family will really use for the year when you see something great? Be smart don't purchase things that won't fit.

More on this.. I like to keep a a very small closet now... I only keep those things I am actually going to wear... Persaonlly for me I jut hte to store so much I can have 7 shirts and 3 pairs of pants 1 dress and 2 pairs of shoes and 1 for dress and that is It... I used to not be that way at all an had a closet stocked so full and then filled up both bedrooms... and I am talkin full walk in closets that were probably 4 x-s as big as most peoples...

Talking out of both sides of my mouth... bu the time you spend moving things, sorting, cleaning, and the space it takes up is a chore and I figure I am way too lazy for that so.... It took me years to get to this place... now my cosmetics... that's where I have a ton of stuff.. I figure if I look good... my clothes just needs to look good on me and I don't need a crazy closet anymore...

So save big at the thrift store ... don't worry about about the money only buy those things that look great on you and when something looks worn or you are sick of it just replace it. This way you always look great and don't have storage issues.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Apples Packing Line

Apples.... the best fruit ever

New York is Apple Land

You have all heard of the great white north...well I live close to the Canadian boarder and in this part of New York it is all farming. In fact sprinkle in the entire state of New York are farms everywhere. Apples are huge in New York and in my little town of Red Creek there are apples in abundance either growing, picking, or the factories are making juice or packing apples to ship around the world.

BUY FLEXSTEEL FURNITURE DIRECT

Hi everyone...
Always trying to find you the best deals...

Many people are calling furniture manufacters, carpet manufacters, etc.. direct to purchase their furniture...

In this economy you want to find as many ways possible to save as you can. Go straight to the source for anything you want to purchase and most places will take into account comparison shopping! Don't just stop at food coupons... Look into purchasing cars, furniture, medications, anything that your family needs.

The hoarding rumors about coupons are silly... See yourself as the CEO of your family's resources.Who told you that? is one of my favorite sayings.. Think for yourselves... Of course there are those out there selling things that don't want you to go direct because they WANT you to BUY from them or buy into the system...example a car sales person doesn't want you to go direct because you may be smart enough to start buying your cars from the factories!!!!!  All said as much as you can start going right to the source ASKING if you can purchase direct...even for groceries, etc... comparison shop even with Amazon who sells groceries too!

HOARDING.... that is just plain silly... Make your own store and have a stockpile sale like a yard sale in your yard with items you don't want or.... donate space is like time use your space wisely. I am a interior designer and it is important... Like they say... Time is the currency of the wealthy (how they spend it) and the same with your space in your home so only keep those things you can realistically use and DONATE to take off your taxes the excess or sell it in a stockpile sale if it is allowed to be resold. 

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Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Ruthie's deals

Below are things that are listed to sell...
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A monthly newsletter sharing how to's and tips to help you coupon

Preorder- Coupon Workbook Vol 1 $10 for preorders (will be $20 Later)

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

FREEBIES!

Love free stuff? Who doesn't Click on the tab that says freebies I will list them as I find them...


LIKE FACEBOOK for Tide and get a free sample!

Madea's Advice to Patty

Madea talks to my sister Patty

Dinos invade Boardman Plaza

I am really worried about my nephews... Brandon and Billy Boardman haaaa

Let me prime you for this one

Discussed with my husband and I am going full time Mary Kay...

I used to wonder about primer products once I tried one I was sold!

The secret to looking professional is to use the right tools and have the right products... Mary Kay has the most wonderful products and the Primer is abosolute wonderful. To order please call me directly at 1-315-439-7027

Ruthie Pople
Your Mary Kay Personal Consultant

Monday, February 20, 2012

Patty and her Amazing Friends episode WIL

Yes... Meet my sister Patty the orange creature.... with tehors... I am the fat one and Clay is the godzilla... we are official members of the "SHITZER CLUB" reserved for those who don't drop their drawers at a drop of a hat and behave during marriage to the point where you start to crack up under the pressure of the selfish of this world... all said.. I hope blesses you...haaaa...

My brother Leon... I Wish We'd All Been Ready

yes it is true that my oldest brother Leon is in jail and he should be... but he is much more free now than he ever has been and God is using him mightily.

The Police - Roxanne

Thinking about my family today... this song remnd me of two that we have turned over to satan for their treatment of my parents .. they just won't stop. My dad had a stroke and went into a wheelchair as a result of their lifestyle...and just would not stop picking on my godly parents... all said... we turned them over to their father the devil as the Bible teaches...until they repent.

Friday, February 17, 2012

All eyes are on you baby!

okay so now since I am going for it... I need to study hard to learn all I can about Mary Kay come join me and my team as we rise to the top in the beauty industry.

Call me at 315-439-7027

Ruthie Pople
Mary Kay rep

I am going full time Mary Kay

I am going full time Mary Kay I used to be one of the largest recruiters for Avon on the east coast... come join my team and I will personally mentor you 1-315-439-7027 More millionnaires are made in Mary Kay then any other company in the world...so why not you?
God Bless
Ruthie Pople

DO IT NOW GET ON TWITTER

<--- ME I am on twitter as @R47R


Listen up... I constantly have people I meet who need help, and there is NO WAY I can answer all my emails, facebook, phone calls, etc.. I REALLY REALLY want to ...but when God made the sun and moon in His wisdom time was created... and God says we should pray give us THIS day our DAILY bread...we are to live one day at a time... All said... God did give men like Evan Williams the wisdom to create Twitter... and he did give people like myself the wisdom and knowledge on how to use the internet and twitter... all said.. Twitter is not like anything else on the net. It gives you INSTANT acess to many people who can help you in life...it is Way different than facebook  or any other social ave out there ...this is why so many copy cats, and so many big players use this...

I am reaching out my hand to you to say... Let me help you learn twitter and to introduce you to the best of twitter... those people movng the world with their thoughts and influencing what is happening. I am a part of that. God first, family second, and have integrity. .. Please, please ... follow me on twitter @R47R so I can help you hook up to twitter.  So many like me get on and it is like shooting a arrow in the dark they don't know how to use it so they get out as they aren't turning to the right channel they keep getting the fuzzies on TV (for those of us old enough to remember) rather than hit the news or right people that can help YOU FOR FREE etc.. ebayers, craiglisters, facebookers, networkers, people who want to chat cats, etc...
You don't need to pay for classes for lots of things if you network with the right people...

All said Twitter is fun if you have a friend take your hand and say ...okay... let me bring you to the party and introduce you to everyone.. so  follow me and let's get started... it's a lot easier I signed up for twitter and dumped out 3 x's before I found out from @KeeperofDreams that it is all about placement, and then met @BillZucker the poster boy of twitter,  etc... and other great people like @Joeygiggles and joined the larges family on twitter... enjoyed friendships with people like Jay Link and went on his show on Kelsey Grammar's network...and then of course I have other friends etc..  found out about twitter parties which people pay around $1,000 an hour for... met some of the greatest closest friends in the world... Royal ! have many personal great great celebrity friends, manybiz friends, CEO, yadda...yadda.. it was great because I already had contacts from my own personal PR biz..but twitter put me in a whole new place... even though I had already been doing things online for years... Ruthie News, training sales people... and working with PR ... (Twitter was a game changer for me because it made things more fun and simple) No one owns me and I keep it that way... If someone gets too close I usually will pick up a new biz as my heart is to help the people for FREE not to make a bunch of cash... the people are worth more to me in networking. Let's face it if you have no tuna... and Chicken of the Sea sends you 16 products...which they did... to me that means a lot more than money...I know it sounds strange...but I like the sport of it all...meeting the people and learning about life... and having that abundant life.. Yep, twitter is all that and a bag of chips.. I can hardly wait to get to heaven and see what God has for me as far as a twitter type thing to play with...He's cool like that you know. All said don't get behind the 8 ball...twitter has been HUGE with those in the know and now it's finally catching on to other people... as is some more things which I will be sharing soon... follow me TODAY on twitter ...go to twitter.com get a account and search @R47R follow me and then tweet me to help you ...:)

In the LOOP!

The Bible says my people perish for lack of knowledge... I want to encourage everyone to GET ON TWITTER . If you don't know how to use it go to twitter.com sign up for a account and follow me @R47R on twitter and I will be happy to walk you through it and introduce you to the best of twitter.

Yes, yes, we have Facebook... but twitter is different. You really need this especially if you are a business. Individuals too to keep in instant contact with people they know.

See ya there!

Online Lifestyle With Ruthie

Hey guys... I am big on blogging for a lot of reasons... which I will definitely do a blog on someday :) ... All said... you will enjoy this new blog I just made... http://www.onlinelifestylewithruthie.blogspot.com/ ck it out subscribe commment , etc...

Right now I am hanging out the most on this blog right here.. what seems to happen is that with the free blog here at blogger once in awhile I get so big that it is hard for some to load the blogs...but good news... I just create a new blog and tell everyone to meet me there ...-----> and still shoot in some posts for those that don't  ... for the most part I try to be live on twitter at @R47R as much as I can as hands down twitter is the place to be...with tweet deck yadda , yadda,,, other good spots but to me it is like a great big phone text to keep in touch with the people I care about. Okay...

so since this blog (Ruthies Kingdom) is pretty much about my life etc... you will definitely want to stay plugged in as I am hoping to teach you a lot and to get on here with those movers and shakers .. the best in the world as well as to share all the goings on... Many times you will hear it right here first an then you will see the networks picking up the stories...etc..


I am just gearing up so ..... plug in and ck this blog everyday so you can be in the loop....which is going to be the ttle of my next post!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

How I Dip Dye My Hair - Ombre Hair

fun with hair color.... If you just want to try something different consider doing this.

I really did color my hair BLACK

okay, so I couldn't resist... got bored with my hair and decided to go a rainbow of colors! Patty and I got together and we colored it BLACK! Just fun... all said I have dyed my hair like every two weeks for the past month and half so no more coloring for me for a bit and I am going to stay dark to give my hair some space.. Always wanted to go dark and now I did it.

please subscibe to my blog and comment and please share this blog with your facebook, twitter, etc.. friends we have a lot of fun here.

Restonic ComfortCare Mattress

Restonic HealthRest Latex

We have this great bed where I work at Barbara Jeans Furniture ... Come and visit me and try out this bed for yourself ...just ask for Ruthie Pople at the door. Located at Rt 414 in North Rose New York.. 100,000 square feet of furniture

Restonic Mattress Factory Tour

I love restonic mattresses because they have the marvelous middles ck the factory tour out Restonic is a good name and has been selling mattresses for about 100 years.

10 signs you work for a bully boss

Are you being singled out? falsely accused of errors?

Work bully case example:

Computer kept breaking down at a work place... so work bully #1 kept blaming all the computer problems on one victim even though bully#1 worked on all the computers. ....

Work party during the Holidays but the victim had to work on paperwork all day

Was told repeatedly how stupid even though the target had been a top performer everywhere else

Employee felt sick, hated their job, and told friends and family (ALWAYS TELL ON THE BULLIES TO EVERYONE! ) ... but continued to stay hoping to find a new job but in the meantime had to stay to pay family bills

Sound familiar? Many people have experienced this type of behavior .... Are you being work bullied?

What to do if you are being bullied

More on work bullies...
This is a great conversation...

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

I am opening a farm stand this spring

Join me this Spring at my Farm Stand this Spring...It will be up and running by Easter. Location 13642 State Route 370 Red Creek New York 13143

Farm fresh eggs, gifts, tools, etc... Lots of stuff for campers, etc... Tell your friends and feel free to contact me at 1-315-439-7027 if you have any questions please help me spread the word!


Monday, February 13, 2012

HE CHEATED ON ME AND HAD A BABY WITH A 18 YEAR OLD GIRL.

Okay... she's talking straight.. the only thing I want to say is Jesus said the only reason for divorce ... is for a HARD HEART I am going to do what I am going to do and too bad for you... this would cover abusers, perverts, etc...

colored my hair black

haaaa did it ...always wanted to dye my hair to the extreme and Patty and I dyed it black today.

YOU CAN GET A FREE LIVE CHRISTIAN STATION ON YOU TUBE

Hi all my friends...
YOU TUBE is allowing people to stream LIVE on you tube. I want to encourage all my friends to contact your pastors, denminations, evangelists, BIBLE teachers etc... to start a YOU TUBE christian channel. I know that many churches are on the net, but many people are on you tube more than anything. You can also go on Ustream to go live, blog TV , blog radio etc...

Let's be instrumental in sharing the gospel by simply forwarding this post to all your pastors and friends. Please feel free to contact me at 1-315-439-7027 if you need help

YOU CAN GET A FREE LIVE CHRISTIAN STATION ON YOU TUBE

Hi all my friends...
YOU TUBE is allowing people to stream LIVE on you tube. I want to encourage all my friends to contact your pastors, denminations, evangelists, BIBLE teachers etc... to start a YOU TUBE christian channel. I know that many churches are on the net, but many people are on you tube more than anything. You can also go on Ustream to go live, blog TV , blog radio etc...

Let's be instrumental in sharing the gospel by simply forwarding this post to all your pastors and friends. Please feel free to contact me at 1-315-439-7027 if you need help

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Extreme couponing stockpile sale

Guys look for me... I have 100 chickens and sell my farm fresh eggs for $2 a carton ... I also am thinking about doing something like this to help my community there is a lot of poverty in my area and of course who says you can't even donate the money to charity? the egg money goes back into the feed for the chickens that we have and we do donate a lot of eggs! Either way Look for me this summer at 13642 State Route 370 Red Creek New York 2 doors down from the cottage in ... We are starting our very own little farm stand. Come say hi to me in person.

You should extreme coupon

I am a extreme couponer ... I have to be. I take care of my family and try to help as many as I can. Here is an example of what your stockpile can look like. Please subscribe to the you tube channel here. I am going to be including my extreme couponing info here as so many of my friends want to learn how to do it and this blog is all about my world. Stockpilers are not HOARDERS they are like the store they buy low to be good managers and GIVE AWAY TO THEIR FAMILY OR DONATE stuff they get for free or are about to expire until they learn how to purchase the right amount for their own family. Learn to purchase this way so you save thousands a year for your family. Please share this blog with your friends and family, churches etc.. to learn how to extreme coupon.

I treat people like dogs...love their tricks

Seriously folks, if you want to be a success in business and in your life and marriage... treat em like a dog... I discovered this one day as I was glued to watching Sandra Dee on "If a man Answers" .... If you praise them when they come... they love seeing you... if you scold them they hide from you and think you are jerk. Just imagine ... you say to your husband tonight... Here Tommy, Come on Boy... come sit here in my lap and let me rub your head... then he takes the trash out and you say that's a good boy here is a treat and toss him a slim Jim...etc... If he's naughty NO JIM NO ...haaaa... anyway... it works...not to be funny ... but scratch them on their tummy, praise them when they show off etc.... may be a little offensive to some ...but get over it and crack a smile... we sometimes treat people terrible worse than animals... so try this for a change of heart especially if you are a BOSS treat your employees like sons and not slaves. They will respect you instead of whispering what a moron and jerk you are... haaaa no one wants to work for a self-proclaimed I am the boss obey me, obey me... and "CONTROL FREAK" or a sissy who hides behind his fall guy and won't man up and run the show... Why such harsh words because I want to train you all to have successful businesses...don't get angry get smart...it's a new day... this is part of my anti-bullying at work and treat your people like gold and this goes for your wives, your husbands, your kids, your friends, money, work, etc... trival ...put your effort into RELATIONSHIPS with those who are CLOSEST TO YOU ... they say average job stay is 4 years... LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND TREAT THEM WELL>>>TREAT THEM LIKE A DOG... YOUR SPECIAL PETS! Back to work... the bosses that have successful companies know the value of rich relationships at work... with the economy being down... we are in danger of businesses not treating people well and overlooking the right in the name of a buck. So YOU BE THE EXAMPLE AND TRAIN YOUR BOSS AND CO workers to be kind.


EXAMPLE OF A GOOD BOSS ----> I had a wonderful manager one time, she was tops. She would bring me presents, be professional, would treat everyone with RESPECT. Trained me to be as good as herself. Towards the end of her career ...we went out together as I was a recruiter and the company was going through some big cuts and putting pressure on people in her area. So I went out with her and got her her numbers as we working together. She cried. She was tops and retired and I am sure not much was done, but this woman impacted 1,000's of women, and TRAINED 1,000's of ladies to be a cut above the rest and to get rich rich careers in the sales industry. I applaud such bosses. The money was ok for her but she made her millions in relationships and I am sure for the rest of her life the people who she trained would gladly give her a deal wherever she goes at a deep discount... so was she really wiser than many? I think so. She treated me like a dog.

Friday, February 10, 2012

bee keeping ... fun to learn

I meet so many interesting people in my travels, I met the ownersof Pimm's sheep Farm the other day.. and Dale told me about owning bees and a littleabout sheep keeping. It was really interesting. My son is allergic to bees and we discussed eatting local honey etc.. here is a great video about bee keeping. Pure honey and meat sheep are a great way to stay healthy.

bee keeping ... fun to learn

I meet so many interesting people in my travels, I met the ownersof Pimm's sheep Farm the other day.. and Dale told me about owning bees and a littleabout sheep keeping. It was really interesting. My son is allergic to bees and we discussed eatting local honey etc.. here is a great video about bee keeping. Pure honey and meat sheep are a great way to stay healthy.

Young comedians ...making u laugh

more fun as Rust the must and Junior of Junior 's wacky world join together tobring some laughs your way... subscribe to their you tube channels and leave a comment... these two are being contacted by companies to do a few commericials for them.

These guys went viral in hours

Okay.... here we have a spoof from Rust the must and Junior.... getting over 10,000 views in just a few hours.... they are getting all kinds of gigs and calls to do their videos as two young comedians.

what happens if you sleep in bunk beds

If you have siblings...you have memories like this.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

beautiful hair by diva Patty

Every day before show time ... Diva Patty does my hair. Here is a do we are going to try.

Updates on Ruthie Tour and I need U R HELP

Hey all, We have all dived in and are on the Ruthie Tour... Here are the updates. We are all in this together. I have so many people asking me for help that there is no way I can help them by myself. A little like American Idol here I see so much talent that goes to waste as they just don't know what to do, so let's help them for FREE and give them a great big push....

Our reward? networking and meeting some great people. Simple. Also during this tour I want to ask EVERYONE to do it all to stop Poverty in America... My request is different.. YOU CAN HELP ORGANIZATIONS...but along with that whenever you see someone in need bring them a bag of groceries, see if you have networked with someone that can help them. Maybe they are a musician and have a gig.. Why not donate some time and give them some shout outs about their CD or call all the restaurants that play music and book them a tour in your town? or call the radio stations to play their music, etc..

We can do more together than apart. My real name is Ruthie and Ruthie means a GOOD FRIEND and that is what this tour is about helping my friends and stopping poverty for free. If you want to be paid that is Okay but for me I am just trying to help my friends just so you know in case you run into people that have a talent have them join our tour...

More... right now I am trying to gather as many people as I can to join us to help in this effort... I NEED YOUR HELP to have people sign up for this blog ... I have big plans and so keep plugged in you can also follow me on facebook http:/www.Facebook.com/RuthieLive.blogspot.com and feel free to call me on my office phone at 1-315-439-7027. This is a act of love as I am a lover of people and care about them as I know you do to.

So what are we doing on the tour... going on internet shows, radio, doing twitter parties, you tube shows, LIVE IN person show, tweet meets, we may not be able to do everything but we can do a lot. We can all join to give people a push by following them, subscribing to them etc.. Anyone that is helping you will be surprised at how your numbers will grow as you will find that by joining this tour you are going to make a ton of contacts for your biz, cause, fan base, etc.. plus as a pr, publicist, recruiter, sales rep...etc... I am going to TRAIN YOU FOR FREE right here on methods so if you want a career in PR etc.. JUMP ON...

Here are a few people I am working with right now..
Diva Patty
Junior of Junior's Wacky World - you tube
Prudence
Rust the Must - You tube
talking to Jay Link about doing a show...
hoping to get Bill Zucker to do a Valentine's show... Everyone please ask Bill to do this, he did one before and it was wonderful.
I want to have all of us join the godfather of twitter Joey Giggles He has a wonderful blog radio show..
Cornerstone restaurant- in Red Creek, New York
Barney's BarBeQue in Red Creek New York
Monroe Wheelchair - Largest in New York


More people as this just started ....I am hoping to do more work with ...and get working with us...
Sinbad
Jolene Sugarbaker
Jeff fenholt
Susan Satmyr
Chris Pirillo
Mark Lane
Mark Franco
Ashton Kutcher- we are real friend
Tom Cruise...yep , we are real friends.
Rick Warren
Joyce Meyers
Joni and Marcus Lamb...
Danny Maynard of prodigalz.com (I used to work for the Maynards- he's like dog the bounty hunter ...a little great person A and E want to do a special with him)
The Extreme couponers (many are my friends...great people...and they don't hoard they donate most of their stuff!)

and the list goes on and on...

All said do me a favor and hook up anyone you know that may want to be a part... people are busy but we can make a difference. Just a note Keep this all family as we want to be decent :) Have them call me or give me a intro ... I work for free and want to help them with free PR and to help stop POVERTY...more please contact every COMPANY you know and ask them to donate FREE stuff to you to help the Ruthie Tour and to donate the items to charity. YOU can take the items yourself to the local shelters. Please share when you do this or if you do a event so we can share with everyone the difference we are making. If possible give the items to people YOU KNOW who are in need. As right now unemployment is so high. God bless you and facebook it out, shout it out on twitter, tell your jobs, churches, to join this blog and let's get the Ruthie Tour rolling and I will give you updates as much as I can.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Stay outta my chicken barn ...look what my chickens are doing

When I play games on twitter...you can follow me there at @R47R on facebook http://www.facebook.com/RuthieLive ....

Look what happens to my chickens when someone sneaks in my barn.... they put their grove on!

I may send you a stay out of my barn for this please comment...then of course my fav dm is Drink your ovaltine...great for those who are in imginary love to wake them up. I am very happily married and have a 3 children Karen, Jessica, and Russell

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Haaa Patty woke up dancing to the chickens

waking my family up with the chickens here on You tube this morning... I do have over 100 REAL chickens in the back... Patty came out DANCING and flapping her wings and crowing into the kitchen. My personal asst. Patty lives with me.

heee heee my family is waking up to this...

Having a little fun here today and waking my family u to Techno Chicken!

ARE YOU BEING WORK BULLIED

Join me in my effort to stop poverty through sharing about anti-bullying? How in this economy there are some employers who feel that people are replaceable ... THEY AREN'T they allow work bullying ! Work bullying actually is part of this bad economy as people go back to work making less and put up with more.

Not only is this effort helping to keep people on the workforce making a fair wage but it is also helping people to STOP BULLYING that is taking place at the workplace during this economy as so many are concerned about keeping a job once they find one and may put up with something they normal would walk from and find a better job.

The video shares some of the emotions that take place with individuals who have to deal with work bullying.

Another TRUE case of work bullying...

A manager was bullied by her store manager and the "GIRLFRIEND" of the MARRIED store manager.
It was a nice paying job but the girlfriend and STORE MANAGER TURNED IT INTO A HOSTILE work environment by the DELIBRATE REPEATED BEHAVIOR... On purpose they hired the brother of the girlfriend to just sit and do nothing to annoy the manager. They picked, picked, picked, to the point where this once classy and upperscale boss lady stood at the counter screaming and she had a rash all over her face. Would they stop NO! They just picked picked picked until the manager quit after many year of working at the store. The good news is the OWNER fired both the manager and the girlfriend. But by then the manager had just moved on and had other employment. I applaud the Owner who took care of the situation and didn't cower and hide but stood up for what was right.

If you are experiencing work bullying you are not alone. If you are a work bully get professional HELP! If you are a croonie...someone that got suckered into helping the bully pick ...like on the school yard... STOP...you may put yourself in a legal lawsuit if the victim decides to take it to another level. Remember the victim is almost always telling her friends, family, etc.. and YOU SHOULD ...any type of abuse SHOULD be exposed. TELL YOUR FAMILY and FRIENDS. Get wise consel on how to handle it. If you have a wise owner that is usually the way to go. Bypass everyone and go right to the top, if he won't listen he's a fool as he will most likely get to add that to his list of lawsuits that he probably has already for thinking things just magically resolve themselves. Usually a simple knock it off to a manager will wake her/him up as they probably most likely are bullying YOU because YOU are smarter than them and they don't want you to get THEIR JOB, or they just have control issues... OBEY ME EVERYONE, not realizing that people don't respect that type of auhority and walk away thinking they are a jerk. Great bosses treat their employees like their kids not like slaves.

Enjoy and please subscribe comment and share this post all over the net and keep reading as do my series throughout this blog on Work bullying. Help me stop this in the workplace... start a anti-bullying, no put down policy at your job (don't give it to a bully to man it up!) And remember happy joyful rich relationships make a business grow, scared, tense, upset workers do the opposite and remember they have friends and family that they are sharing with about the workplace so if you want to keep your company in the green and your job...Help your company grow by keeping a good morale among the workers. Again please share this blog wth your co-workers, bosses, etc..

Monday, February 6, 2012

HEART OF STONE! BEN ROBINSON LIVE! Now on Itunes & Amazon

Love my friend... Ben... and Ben has dedicated a song to me... he's a sweetheart ... please share this video with all you know. I LOVE YOU BEN!

Ben Robinson Band fans love him

A older post that I made on you tube but I still love Ben Robinson and wanted to encourage all of you to network with him and to friend him...and hey what do you think red head or blonde on me... and oh no...I gained weight time for my work out eh?

Live talk with Bubba Williams STHF prepper

Where To Live When The SHTF

I have a lot of fun watching SHTF videos... SHTF

Now... there is like a whole movement of this on you tube...you gotta ck it out... and these people are FOR REAL!

Also... this is when you are very bored and go to the weird side of you tube...haaa...anyway.

This will help you with your vocabulary on this subject...

Extreme Couponer... not a SHTF but may watch videos to learn how to store food for their stockpiles

SHTF - SHIT HITS THE FAN... when the whole world goes to shit

Domesday prepper - people that prepare for SHTF

Zombies - Those that don't prepare

ZOMBIE ATTACK - when the people who didn't prepare attack the Survalist, and Domesday Preppers

Dirty Dicks and Crotch Crickets!!

Watch out Men... women are putting you in your place

lot lizard

Okay... I found out what a Lot Lizard was... They are hookers that hang out around truck stops. All said.. we wonder how
the STD 's travel... I guess they travel via Lizard.

How to get FREE PR in the NEWSPAPER

This blog is about my life...my kingdom...and I am into marketing ...so learn how to market yourself for free right herelI was taught this 15 years ago... it's called PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS! I have done this for years and it works! If you are in sales...a business owner, etc.. get your staff t subscibe to this blog ... this is going to save you THOUSANDS as I share my publicity tips...


Most ... people WRITE their own press... don't feel guilty about it, It is what it is... so for example... if you are going to play the piano at the local Restaurant. Dig out your phone book ... and look for all the newspapers, radio stations, etc.. and then email them or mail them a letter. Example:
Dear Buckys Newspaper..

Please print the following PUBLIC SERVICE announcement in your paper:

Buck, an accomplished pianist will be performing at Joey's Grill on Saturday Feb 25 from 5-6 pm. Buck has played for the Brian's bowling Center for 3 months, and his speciality is classical music.  He has 3 children and his wife Wendy teaches volleyball at the Houston gym.
signed Buck Williams

You put the ad in every paper, radio station , etc.. within 100 miles of you. Do this every time you have a event. It's free and will bring you a greater following. Most places will let you send a photo as well.

Toilet Bowl Cleaner taste

....hmmm the jelly beans taste like toilet bowel cleaner...my question is how did we know what toilet bowel cleaner tastes like?

POPLE POWER Bible READING GENESIS 1

Come read the Bible along with my sister Patty and I ... We both have accepted Jesus Christ as our personal Savior for over 40 years.

Chili winner red creek my

Here you see me with Brian McDonald the Chili Winner at Barbara Jeans Furniture in North Rose, New York . Right near Red Creek New York. Come visit me at Barbara Jeans Furniture :)

Walmart is Tracking YOU!

Yet, another sign of the end of days...
The bible says the antichrist will require all to take a mark in their hand or forehead and they will have no place to hide... we see the beginning of all of this taking place in our society.

4 Month Air-Force UFO Investigation - Brazil 1977. Pt9 final

Living out here in the country I hear more stories of UFO than I have in the city. I personally believe Like Jack Van Impe talked about that all this UFO stuff is possibly demonic activity as most people who experience anything like this have a BAD experience. smoke stink...etc...

I feel that this is going to be the explanation the world talks about when the rapture of the church takes place to explain why all the chrisitans are missing.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Workplace Bullying: It Can't Be Legal, Can It?

my series on workplace bullying continues.. it does effect poverty in america because workers are now after going on employment just an example... earn 1500 go on unemployment for 3 years get 300 go back to work as your unemployment is running out and you want to rejoin the work force... for 300 plus commissions you hope... and then face a hostile work force possibly everyone fighting to keep their jobs...

and being happy with $300 rather than no income and feeling like a valued part of the working force.

.... not necessarily the gospel...but just what may be happening to some out there who come back to work only to face the work bully... or new bullies arising from the drop in our economy with the mentality taking care of mine only ...my family etc.. to survive and feeling satisfied with $300 after being used to it for so long on unemployment... feeling like we did it for a few years so now this is where I am for a few years until thing kick back... sounds a little like the grapes of wrath to me... the start up...

All said.. it isn't just in sales but I am hearing it is everywhere. Just yesterday Iheard how a girl was physically attacked in her job by her boss throwing a sharp knife at her some sort of cutter while she was working because her boss was upset with her. Tensions in some places are rising... and Work bullying is ILLEGAL!

If bosses think that silence is GOLDEN... did you know that if someone puts their leg up to prevent someone from say going somewhere that could be considered SEXUAL HARRASSMENT? Sexual harassment and bullying can go together... hindering someone from doing their job... not training them well into 2 months of hiring and training the newer people and loading them in the system BEFORE a previous one, holding people back from doing their job. Silence isn't golden. Also some owners will remain silent and the worker could be the fall guy and get sued himself. No one wins in work bullying. Just like a wise farmer if they have situations they DEAL with them... and 9 times out of 10 these problems can be resolved just by having owners not tolerate bullying and addressing the problems. Unfortunately there are a few owners who won't address problems they won't confront the work bully or just believe whatever the people say that talk to them instead of taking the time to find out what is really happening. The victim may approach them and they just HIDE thinking silence is golden and refuse to deal it. They don't go away... it is just a matter of time until someone comes in who won't put up with it and will take legal action and they lose a few good workers in the bargain and for what? Because they refuse to deal with the issues at hand. You are doing your company a favor when you say listen this is crossing the line. We all enjoy good relationships but when one person is getting bullied if you allow it you are just as guilty. All said ... I hope this is an encouragement to those who have to face the work bullying in your job. Why not share this blog with your co-workers and boss and ask them to start a lift each other up and sharing the good things about each other policy.

Workplace Bullying: It Can't Be Legal, Can It?

my series on workplace bullying continues.. it does effect poverty in america because workers are now after going on employment just an example... earn 1500 go on unemployment for 3 years get 300 go back to work as your unemployment is running out and you want to rejoin the work force... for 300 plus commissions you hope... and then face a hostile work force possibly everyone fighting to keep their jobs...

and being happy with $300 rather than no income and feeling like a valued part of the working force.

.... not necessarily the gospel...but just what may be happening to some out there who come back to work only to face the work bully... or new bullies arising from the drop in our economy with the mentality taking care of mine only ...my family etc.. to survive and feeling satisfied with $300 after being used to it for so long on unemployment... feeling like we did it for a few years so now this is where I am for a few years until thing kick back... sounds a little like the grapes of wrath to me... the start up...

All said.. it isn't just in sales but I am hearing it is everywhere. Just yesterday Iheard how a girl was physically attacked in her job by her boss throwing a sharp knife at her some sort of cutter while she was working because her boss was upset with her. Tensions in some places are rising... and Work bullying is ILLEGAL!

If bosses think that silence is GOLDEN... did you know that if someone puts their leg up to prevent someone from say going somewhere that could be considered SEXUAL HARRASSMENT? Sexual harassment and bullying can go together... hindering someone from doing their job... not training them well into 2 months of hiring and training the newer people and loading them in the system BEFORE a previous one, holding people back from doing their job. Silence isn't golden. Also some owners will remain silent and the worker could be the fall guy and get sued himself. No one wins in work bullying. Just like a wise farmer if they have situations they DEAL with them... and 9 times out of 10 these problems can be resolved just by having owners not tolerate bullying and addressing the problems. Unfortunately there are a few owners who won't address problems they won't confront the work bully or just believe whatever the people say that talk to them instead of taking the time to find out what is really happening. The victim may approach them and they just HIDE thinking silence is golden and refuse to deal it. They don't go away... it is just a matter of time until someone comes in who won't put up with it and will take legal action and they lose a few good workers in the bargain and for what? Because they refuse to deal with the issues at hand. You are doing your company a favor when you say listen this is crossing the line. We all enjoy good relationships but when one person is getting bullied if you allow it you are just as guilty. All said ... I hope this is an encouragement to those who have to face the work bullying in your job. Why not share this blog with your co-workers and boss and ask them to start a lift each other up and sharing the good things about each other policy.

Workplace Bullying: It Can't Be Legal, Can It?

STOP POVERTY IN AMERICA BY STOPPING WORKPLACE BULLYING whereever you see it ... by SPEAKING UP like in school ... NO BULLYING AT OUR WORK PLACE!


Today we are discussing the legal problems it causes the owners, managers, and other members of the workforce.. SHAME ON THOSE WHO LET THIS HAPPEN in their job and don't be a part of the problem be a part of the solution by encouraging your job to start a NO BULLYING reward program, no put downs, etc... No one should have to stand for this.

Another case of work bullying...
I personally know a salesman that worked for a photography company that LOCKED a girl in a bathroom OVERNIGHT who refused to mess around with him.

Sexual harrassment, bullying, etc.. can go together.

Did you know that if someone as simply as puts their leg up and won't let you by can be considered sexual harrassment.. as preventing someone from doing their job , refusing to train them, or holding them back ... The Law looks at such things. Work place bullying can be silence and ignoring as well.

Obviously we aren't talking about the day to day enjoyment of relationships in the workplace we are talking here of the Deliberate REPEATED offenders who do not have anyones good at heart and bully like wife abusers they don't get better they just act out more openly as time goes on and unfortunately many owners KNOW about the activities but REFUSE to respond as they themselves are afraid of lawsuits and confrontations and retaliations. Very foolish. Deal with your problems like a garden address the issues and nine times out of ten the problems will cause some buzz and maybe a temper tantrum by the bully but then you will have a safe happy productive workforce again. It is like a cancer eventually someone will come in and confront the bully in the workforce and silence isn't golden for owners and bosses in these cases. If you are a boss and work for a owner who refuses to address this ...consider a new job... you may be the fall guy and get sued yourself best to find out the laws in your state and that you are protected legally.

What is Workplace Bullying?

Are you being bullied at work? my heart crys for those who go to work daily and are tormented and picked on by those who have issues themselves. I hope this article encourages you as I pray for you as well as those who are my prayer partners pray for you as well. Here is part of my own story on work bullying... never reported anyone...like most people who get abused at work I was just too nice.


My Dad died after being bullied by my older sisters who wanted money from him over a house he sold to my sister, I was in a major car attack and all that was left was my front seat, I went through bankruptcy, my ex husband now was physically and emotionally abusing me and cheating on me. I just left my own biz to get a job to leave my husband, and my dad passed away and in less than a week I started working full time in sales....

The work bully... why? Jealousy... I was a top performer an he was threatened. He was fired from his previous job for sexual harrassment. This guy even bullied customers ...old people. I had a customer tell me they refused to come into the store because he was sexually harassing them WHILE he was working at the store...

The bullying..... here I came in and IMMEDIATELY he started stirring up the sales floor , the office and everyone saying I ws a FRUIT CAKE, Why? because usually in most abusive cases ....they can't find anything you are really doing wrong so they do stuff... and PLAN to bring you down...ALL OVER MONEY... more... day after day... I was getting physically sick, yet I still kept working and making my numbers. To be honest.. the boss a man and the owner a man were WONDERFUL people... to me, when I really wanted to leave as my husband was so abusive at home that I felt like I just wanted to leave the owner said no, and wouldn't let me leave...and the next week he put me on unemployment as he knew he was selling the store and all the staff except the new staff who moved in from another one of his stores to work there... All office no sales staff remained.

So day after day, year after year... little pokes little digs... he would approach me too to bully other people on the sales floor to get them off the floor. He would share about how he was thrown out of the town office demanding his taxes to be lowered... I remember customers saying to me... I see you are working with *A hole today... as he was rude , and obnoxious. The worst day was the day he was picking on a old man yelling at him and the wharehouse guy and I ran to get one of the girls in the office to stop him. Of course he said it was the customers fault. He had a out going personality but he was a bully ... like in the schoolyard... He stirred up other workers to treat me poorly....like in the school yard...his gang of croonies... One guy KICKED me in the butt, other workers would join in that I was stupid. Nothing real just the perception they heard over and over. In my opinion the more intelligent people who thought for themselves.. realized he was just a jerk and saw it for what it was. But unfortunately, like most people they didnt want to confront him and neither did I. The funny thing is ... my biz previously wasas a recruiter for a major company and I managed more than 1,000 reps, won awards year after year etc.. My sales were still good here and I was a top seller in the company along with the bully. I am sure for most of their lives the peopl that worked with me that were one of the croonies picking too because in my opinion they didn't think for themselves ... will always see me this way...but hey I think I did pretty ...good I suppose... all these things happened in 3 years...bankruptcy, husband, dad dying, etc..and during my grief from my dad passing ... I left the funeral and was greeting by the new job and work bully ...and abusive husband... I think I did pretty good and only by the grace of God did I go on.
All forgven...but wanted to encourage those who have work bullying. I blame myself for not going to the boss or owner who were wonderful good people to me. Loved me and praised me for my performance.

Why the story? With this economy I am very concerned about the workforce and bosses not treating their co-workers and help well...and trafficing people in and out ad not placing VALUE on human lives... I heard stories of PHYSICAL abuse by CO-WORKERS, disrespect, constant DELIBERATE BULLYING saying or implying youare stupid, you don't matter, you can be replaced... YOU AREN"T WORTH MUCH MENTALLY ABUSIVE... etc... workers FIGHTING to keep their job by BULLYING others for a buck. If you are a croonie supporting this distructive behavior ...STOP! Think for yourself... IF YOU ARE A WORK BULLY ... get some PROFESSIONAL HELP... If you are a victim of work bullying--- IT'S NOT YOU .... TELL SOMEONE EXACTLY WHAT IS HAPPENING AND GET SOME WISE COUNSEL ... UNFORTUNATELY most of the time the bully has done so much damage with his croonies that they see you as a loser and incompetent and "CRAZY" that you should just wipe off the dust from your feet and find a company more worthy of you as your nature in my opinion is too Kind and sweet and rarely do companies get rid of the bully... the owners and bosses usually don't want to deal with them either...unless you have a great boss like I did and I should have discussed it, but I didn't want to appear as a trouble maker so I just took it.... day after day... year after year... like in most abusive cases they don't get better..they get worse, and many times the person being abused will over compensate...trying to FIX it and it only adds to the problem... by making the person seem even worse than before to the croonies who now are in full force picking on you as well. So YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE copy and paste this in your blog, subscribe to this blog... as I am going to address this topic a few times in my effort to STOP POVERTY IN AMERICA ! You who love the Lord please pray for this taint in our society .... REMEMBER YOU WHO ARE BEING BULLIED YOU CAN BE PITIFUL OR POWERFUL YOU HAVE PEOPLE PRAYING FOR YOU. PRAY FOR WISDOM.

Friday, February 3, 2012

memories for all of us who have been on twitter for awhile...

My life in social media & Networking...etc.
sitting here relaxing, just had a customer leave who I knew from the local library very nice person. My day is running as usual wake up take dog out make coffee, play on twitter a bit, some days start laundry. Some days a mass of phone calls. Today my neice "RuthIe" also known by her real name
Natalie, returned a call I made to her as I thought she was already up. Ruthie and I hav been having a very silly time playing on twitter tonight. FAds are fun, like when we were kids and everyone played with CB radios. I don't know when the big blow out can come for the next social media gig but for now Ruthie and I are having a ball on twitter together. Last night we grabbed the GODFATHER and Twitter Hunk @Joeygiggles it was great because Joey was so much fun to play with. I was also happy to see that Ruthie was getting the hang of twitter. She is a smart cookie as she is a engineer in real life and is designing hospitals right now. I just love twitter it is so much fun! Natalie is @NatalieRuth1 on Twitter.
My friend Royal Barber is fast capturing a place in my heart. My friend on twitter from Toledo, Ohio area. Royal is my Jewish son on twitter and I have to phone him or me him every 4 hours to get my Royal Fix! He is @RoyalBarber Got me addicted to twitpic and I am hoping to skype with him, and he doesn't know it yet, but I want to play with him some on KelseyLive.com doing some broadcast stuff.
Yesterday, a friend of mine on twitter who is a Christian told me he wouldn't be with me much longer as he is going on to heaven. He was so happy he said to me WHAT ARE YOU JEALOUS? He has to goods and knows how good it will be to really be in heaven with my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
I also saw a tweet by another friend that said he was going to block all Bible Thumpers . I tweeted that cutie as I didn't want to lose him and let him know I was a Bible thumper he said he wasn't going to block me because he loved Lazboy. I sell furniture for Lazboy.
Now of course @BillZucker of twitter is locked in his vault still holding us hostage on twitter and now he is even beginning to get greedy as he is holding Toilet paper on Facebook too! Hands down..Bill Zucker is my favorite peep of all time and his music
what can I say..He's wonderful!
...In real life I need to contact my son's college and get him all enrolled and set up asap. He is Rust the Must of You Tube and does a lot of work with Junior of Junior's Wacky World on You Tube.
Meeting great people all over the net and there are a few friends on facebook I am hoping to connect with stronger if you are on facebook please connect with me there I am Ruthie Junior Yingst Appleby.
I was on KelseyLive.com yesterday actually I thought @JayLink_ of twitter who does the Jay Link show was going to do his show but he'd been off twitter for a long time and he's getting ready to do some touring so I am sure he had to keep his priorties in order and since as a sweetheart he was going to do a extra show for us so it wasn't his normally scheduled show, he had to take care of stuff that was pressing. Unless of course he decided to do his nails and put on nylons or something..then we are all gonna kill him! haaa,,, Anyway,,,I just love Jay Link he is such a sweetheart! The Rock Star heartthrob of twitter. - Jay's everyone's sweetheart xxoo hugs. You can't help but love Jay. It's his magnetic sweetness.
@FilmLadd I just love Laddy! I really really want to take the time to listen to his show he just did. I think it is
Facebook- I am hoping to really keep up on Ed Bassmaster of youtube and blog tv and Chris Pirillo - internet geek also Jeff Fenholt lead singer of Black Sabbath now singing for Jesus and a voice outta this world!
RuthieTalk.ning.com- My good buddy Jay
Link just signed up for yours trully's own social network...show some love and join the fan club I set up for Jay there. I am hoping that people will check in there too as I will put updates there on Jay's activities.
---- But please stay active at
@TODHD--Todd David and @Kelsey_Grammer's social network...KelseyLive.com
this is where the action is AT!
Help me draw as many as I can to KelseyLive.com Great things are coming this way and this is where ALL THE SOCIAL NETWORKING IS HEADING...DON'T WALK RUN THERE!
So.. there is the scoop ... on what is going on in my life at the moment. I wil blog more later. Chase me all over the net. But the fastest way to find me is on KelseyLive.com
Ruthie Appleby make me a friend...if you need help finding me... friend me on twitter
Ruthie Appleby
Social Media Princess

This was in my computer and thought you all would enjoy reading a old post.
www.BillZucker.com is my favorite as well as his show with @Kelsey_Grammer is hysterical. I get so excited everytime I get a tweet from Bill Zucker and I have a feeling in real life he is a ball as everyone that has encountered him in Hollywood told me how wonderful he is! I did get a few cool tweets from some people. Sometimes I get some really sweet tweets from Bill Zucker that are so humbling like today @R47R - That's me ..rules twitter! just so humbling as I think No, Bill that 's YOU! Anyway- Bill Zuckerwww.FilmLadd.com I am hoping in the next couple days since I have a day off I will be able to hear Film Ladd. http://www.twitter.com/R47R still have a hard time??? then just go to http://RuthieTalk.ning.com and I will help you to get to KelseyLive.com

A man's gift makes room for him

Being Excellent....
In all that you do strive for excellence. Don't be 2nd best. Be the best. There is a Bible verse that says a man's gift makes room for him. Take the God given gifts that the Lord gives to you and don't just be good but like the good book says take the talents that the Lord has given you and add to them. The Bible talks about how God gave various talents and the wise people worked with the talents God gave them and made more talents the evil servant took the talent God gave him and buried it in the ground and did nothing with it. God wants us to develop the gifts He has given to us. Did you ever meet people that just had so many talents and were excellent at all of them. One of the things I enjoy doing is to pick a different thing each year I enjoy and to try and master that thing. It is excited to see all the little things I picked up as a hobby that have now been mastered to a higher level. And then each year I can build on these things and all these talents can get a little stronger..sometimes of course I forget stuff...but then there are life skills that I always work on ...like Bible reading and my people skills as I know God has called me into sales. So become excellent in the area God has called you to work and pray hard. Remember a man's gift makes room for him so if you are the best of the best in your area there will always be a job or place for you no matter where you go.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Come pat my MARVELOUS MIDDLE

WOW! Now this is what I really want for Valentine' s Day ... scrap the diamonds... and tanning sessions... I want a MARVELOUS MIDDLE --- And I can get it in 2 seconds flat...

how? by buying a RESTONIC MATTRESS...

We got the middle that springs you back here at my store... Barbara Jeans Furniture Mall ... come see me Ruthie Pople here in North Rose , New York and I will let you pat my Marvelous Midde on my restonic mattresses! Call me at 1-315-439-7027 to set up a appointment

Meet Tyre Richardson

MEET ~~~~
TYRE RICHARSON


Tyre Richardson AKA Re-ill was born in 1989. He was raised in North
Carolina. Hip Hop at first became part of Re-ill’s life in 2002 before
then he really did not listen to music at all, but he was soon drawn
into the Hip Hop world through battle rap. In Jan 2006 a couple of
Re-ill’s friends started going to the studio to record. Re-ill being a
dedicated Hip Hop fan was very interested in going with his friends to
listen and see how Hip Hop is created. Once in the studio Re-ill
realized very quickly that Hip Hop was something he wonted to be a
part of. Soon after Re-ill started investing all his time into
becoming a Hip Hop artist, he began writing and recording in Nov 2006.
In 2008 Re-ill started to try different music styles and began doing
pop he soon remixed Brittney spears “womanizer” turning his rap career
in a totally different direction. Then in 2009 Re-ill performed for
the first time and it appeared that he had a nature gift for
performing now, fully serious about making it as a Rap/Pop/Hip Hop
Artists Re-ill moved to Atlanta where he currently resides.

My New Mixtape Day Light Savings
http://www.hotnewhiphop.com/re_ill-day-light-savings-mixtape.44033.html

for God sake keep your pants on

My sister Patty was left by her husband of over 30 years for a 19 year old girl... This song has added some laughter to her... It was a #CHEATERFAIL as the girl dumped him..after telling my sister a sweet Christian girl she was more woman than her... All said... All the selfish people will get theirs some day as God says ADULTERS SIN AGAINST THEIR OWN BODY AND GOD ...and of course I had a friend recently tell me... that her doc said it's not aids 40 year old woman have t worry about it is all the other stuff like gonerreha...forget the spelling...just read on.. Divas and way hot decent guys... Like I always say UGLY people cheat...good looking people get hit on all the time... Just folks get yourself together have some respect and keep your pants on... Hey if you can't hear it from a #truebeliever...like wear deoderant, take a bath, etc... who is gonna tell you the truth.